Lots of people have described me a s being a strong person. How could I have gotten through everything that my young life has thrown at me if I weren't, right? Yea, I am strong! I used to think it was a bunch of malarkey (I never was really great at accepting compliments), but now I know...I am strong.
The past couple of months have been a little treacherous. Rationally, I know things could be a lot worse. I mean A LOT worse, but sometimes the strength put forth on a daily basis is eroded by bits of tiny snip-its of news.
When one reaches their breaking point people handle themselves in a myriad of different ways. Recently, my strength fell. I felt it falling, I saw it falling and I knew I had to catch it. I decided the best thing to do at the moment was let myself feel. Feel sad. Wallow in my melancholy. Lament. So I did exactly that, for the next two days I let myself feel. My friends know that when I get into these "funks" I essentially fall off the face of the earth. I am unreachable. They know how I do and they let me. I love my friends.
Anyway, when I went looking for my strength I found it. It was right here. I picked it up and knew that I was done being sad. Granted, the situations in my life right now haven't changed & won't anytime soon, and I will deal with that, but to decompress every once and a while to keep your sanity is OK. There is nothing weak about letting down your guard, finding strength in weakness and grow as a person.
I have so much gratitude for every breath that I take, for every face that makes or has made me smile or cry. I have a past & it's not all sunshine, rainbows & flowers, but I am here because I am strong and that means that I also have a future!
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